According to Sun Tzu, the ultimate objective of any conflict is to win without fighting. To do that you must know not only yourself, but also your enemy.

 

I was pleased to see that at least one of the deliberately created duplicate memorials has been merged (I haven't checked the rest, but I know, for sure, there is one that isn't). I sincerely hope that this family stops being so antagonistic toward other members of Find A Grave as we're all there to help people find their family (okay, most of us are there for service - I've already made it clear what I think of those people who are simply there to make some sort of name for themselves).

 

If you reread My-Tree-Itis you'll also see that I've removed the links to their pages. I actually did that the day after I posted them because I had made my point. It's sad that I had to post them at all, but if something good comes of it then so be it.

 

As I've stated, I'm not an unreasonable person. I firmly believe that you win more friends with honey than with vinegar. But I'm also not a rug and I won't be walked on. If you have a problem with me then talk to me about it. I try to communicate before getting nasty, but when my attempts go ignored then I will make my point in whatever way I can.

 

Luke 11:5-10